Betrayed by Mother... looking for advice. - Mohawks Rock2024-03-29T11:15:32Zhttps://www.mohawksrock.com/forum/topics/betrayed-by-mother-looking-for-advice?id=1501994%3ATopic%3A665800&feed=yes&xn_auth=noI am happy to hear CPS cleare…tag:www.mohawksrock.com,2011-09-02:1501994:Comment:6683682011-09-02T08:00:44.982ZWolf Madchenhttps://www.mohawksrock.com/profile/Tara
<p>I am happy to hear CPS cleared you, but clearly your mom is being very childish. I hope she comes to her senses in the future.</p>
<p>xoxo</p>
<p>I am happy to hear CPS cleared you, but clearly your mom is being very childish. I hope she comes to her senses in the future.</p>
<p>xoxo</p> I Cut my mother off and haven…tag:www.mohawksrock.com,2011-09-02:1501994:Comment:6675122011-09-02T00:13:01.985ZDamian McKayhttps://www.mohawksrock.com/profile/DamianMcKay
<p>I Cut my mother off and havent spoken to her in 2 years now we were very close but she had an affair and took off to a different country before confessing. It wasnt easy, your mum sounds like she has issues and it doesnt sound like her therepy is helping. I think you should distance yourself and family from her but not cut her off. dont let her in the house meet in public places instead this way she cant do anything stupid like this again. I just think cutting off the kids from there…</p>
<p>I Cut my mother off and havent spoken to her in 2 years now we were very close but she had an affair and took off to a different country before confessing. It wasnt easy, your mum sounds like she has issues and it doesnt sound like her therepy is helping. I think you should distance yourself and family from her but not cut her off. dont let her in the house meet in public places instead this way she cant do anything stupid like this again. I just think cutting off the kids from there grandparent would be difficult for them to understand.</p>
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<p>hope that helps</p>
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<p>Damian </p> My mother has had a long hist…tag:www.mohawksrock.com,2011-09-01:1501994:Comment:6679632011-09-01T16:26:48.975ZShanna Hensonhttps://www.mohawksrock.com/profile/ShannaHenson
My mother has had a long history of unaddressed mental illness. Everyone in my family knows she is not all 'right' but she refuses most medications and just manipulates everyone around her.
My mother has had a long history of unaddressed mental illness. Everyone in my family knows she is not all 'right' but she refuses most medications and just manipulates everyone around her. I am considering sueing... bu…tag:www.mohawksrock.com,2011-09-01:1501994:Comment:6674972011-09-01T16:25:54.433ZShanna Hensonhttps://www.mohawksrock.com/profile/ShannaHenson
I am considering sueing... but I know that will make the rift between my Mom even worse. Still debating... if this continue to go this way with her I will look into some sort of lawsuit.
I am considering sueing... but I know that will make the rift between my Mom even worse. Still debating... if this continue to go this way with her I will look into some sort of lawsuit. Oh I posted on a few sites, a…tag:www.mohawksrock.com,2011-09-01:1501994:Comment:6680652011-09-01T16:24:31.591ZShanna Hensonhttps://www.mohawksrock.com/profile/ShannaHenson
Oh I posted on a few sites, and got alot of great feedback. But I wanted some advice from people I have more in common with I suppose, thats why I posted here too lol.
Oh I posted on a few sites, and got alot of great feedback. But I wanted some advice from people I have more in common with I suppose, thats why I posted here too lol. CPS came by and told us that…tag:www.mohawksrock.com,2011-09-01:1501994:Comment:6680642011-09-01T16:20:50.954ZShanna Hensonhttps://www.mohawksrock.com/profile/ShannaHenson
<p>CPS came by and told us that everything here was great. Kids are healthy and well fed and happy, house is clean, my husband has a good job and we seem like a well rounded parenting unit. (Yea she said unit ) And also the CPS woman told me we are so 'above average' that if they recieve another CPS call ( which will most likely happen ) she doesnt even need to come by my house, she will just phone me. I was relieved and happy.</p>
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<p>I posted a facebook status update about CPS saying…</p>
<p>CPS came by and told us that everything here was great. Kids are healthy and well fed and happy, house is clean, my husband has a good job and we seem like a well rounded parenting unit. (Yea she said unit ) And also the CPS woman told me we are so 'above average' that if they recieve another CPS call ( which will most likely happen ) she doesnt even need to come by my house, she will just phone me. I was relieved and happy.</p>
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<p>I posted a facebook status update about CPS saying everything was fine. Of course all of my friends commented saying "duh we knew that" or "congrats" and then my mother posted this:</p>
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<p><span class="commentBody">"kind of like with Casey Anthony , they thought she was not guilty too."</span></p>
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<p><span class="commentBody">I had a long talk with my husband and decided that cutting off communication with my mother is best for now, until she can come to me with a much different attitude. ( My mother and I have a history of horrible situations like this when I was divorcing my first husband. She sided with him in court because he promised her that she would ge tto see our son. She testified in court against me and said I never took care of my kid and that she did full time, becuase I was a bad mother. I was working full time, so for her to say that is insane. I lost custody of my son due to my own mother lying about me. ) So for now I am protecting me and mine and my mother can sit and rot for now.</span></p> beautiful children and if it…tag:www.mohawksrock.com,2011-09-01:1501994:Comment:6671282011-09-01T00:31:02.330Z22lliou6xj137https://www.mohawksrock.com/xn/detail/u_22lliou6xj137
beautiful children and if it was my mom i would have cussed her out and let the rest of my family know.
beautiful children and if it was my mom i would have cussed her out and let the rest of my family know. To wack to just let her off t…tag:www.mohawksrock.com,2011-08-31:1501994:Comment:6669972011-08-31T05:20:14.644ZJay Riothttps://www.mohawksrock.com/profile/JayRiot
<p>To wack to just let her off that easy, cutt her off for now so she can see how lonley it is with out family, then mabey shell think twice about doing rediculess shit x]</p>
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<p>and as time goes by evaluate her actions, decide wheather or not shes ready to come back into you world</p>
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<p>btw, you said she hasa theripist? is she fucked up in the head or what?</p>
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<p>To wack to just let her off that easy, cutt her off for now so she can see how lonley it is with out family, then mabey shell think twice about doing rediculess shit x]</p>
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<p>and as time goes by evaluate her actions, decide wheather or not shes ready to come back into you world</p>
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<p>btw, you said she hasa theripist? is she fucked up in the head or what?</p>
<p> </p> I'm so sorry, I know what it'…tag:www.mohawksrock.com,2011-08-31:1501994:Comment:6668772011-08-31T04:21:18.038ZWolf Madchenhttps://www.mohawksrock.com/profile/Tara
I'm so sorry, I know what it's like to have your mom hurt you so deeply. Honestly, I think her therapist is putting ideas into her head. If she is seeing a therapist, I might presume she is having some problems, possibly dealing with reality, and if she is on medications I would take that into consideration. I would advise confronting the 'therapist', although files are confidential she still should answer for her crimes, possibly suing either one for slander or defamation of character.
I'm so sorry, I know what it's like to have your mom hurt you so deeply. Honestly, I think her therapist is putting ideas into her head. If she is seeing a therapist, I might presume she is having some problems, possibly dealing with reality, and if she is on medications I would take that into consideration. I would advise confronting the 'therapist', although files are confidential she still should answer for her crimes, possibly suing either one for slander or defamation of character. My advice would be to ignore…tag:www.mohawksrock.com,2011-08-31:1501994:Comment:6668712011-08-31T04:08:15.065ZStevehttps://www.mohawksrock.com/profile/Steve
<p>My advice would be to ignore what she did/is doing. I know that seems hard, but breaking all contact with her makes you look guilty.</p>
<p>You should also try asking for advice on some parenting forums, this site might not give you the best results in this particular field.</p>
<p>My advice would be to ignore what she did/is doing. I know that seems hard, but breaking all contact with her makes you look guilty.</p>
<p>You should also try asking for advice on some parenting forums, this site might not give you the best results in this particular field.</p>