woman and men time to come out if you want...I wont be shocked much by women coming out but men itll be like oh because im not use to men admitting stuff like that especially the macho types
I never had any interest in having sex with men or women. I don't see the attraction below the belt, tbh. The whole intercourse idea was always a turn-off for me. I also have no interest in kissing or masturbation.
My sexual drive is more to do with guys having power over me with sneakers and boots and a sense of fun with it.
The trouble for me is going through the whole explaining process and convincing folk that there isn't anything more of what they expect. heh I get tired at times of that and feeling insecure about what others fear/expect from me - from across the straight/bi/gay spectrum.
Though, obviously, it's easier talking to gay folk and open-minded women 'cause they aren't fearful. But I prefer the strength and machismo of straight guys 'cause they have more of a power aura and they don't want sex from me (though not all gay guys want sex either).
Sorry, I wasn't getting notifications on this thread. =) But now I've returned to have a look at it.
Am I asexual? I had a few discussions about that with gay guy's and women who thought I might be. I have difficulty with accepting the term. Even though I have zero interest in sex, I still have an inbuilt desire for guys to have power over me with their sneakers or boots. As in standing on me, pinning me or wiping them on me. heh
Crazy sounding I know! It took me much thinking to come to terms with it all. But I see my sexual need as cross-wired to another aspect of sensation, I guess control of pain, but nothing to do with sex/kissing. =)
I'm sure I've probably confused more folk with that! It's never easy to sum up something inbuilt. :) But fun to discuss.
lol back I return, late to reply to everyone!
Yes, I am a virgin :D That never worried me, since it's not important to me. It's a difficulty though, 'cause I have to avoid advances like that and it's never easy putting folk off without hurting/frustrating them and I know all about being frustrated 'cause it's hard to make folk believe in what I do like is all there is to it! ^_^
Not one of a kind - but rare yes. I've met similar people to myself both in real-life and on the net. Of course, if you add in other people with different fetishes it increases the number of folk not interested in sex. It would be interesting to know just how rare though... :/
One thing I've learnt through reading and talking with people is there's a huge variety of folk out their, now very little surprises me. heheh
Now I'm curious about your philosophy...maybe I shouldn't ask? =)