I know what you mean, but not the "punk" part. You see, I have many different types of friends. There is a group that says," Oh don't worry, I don't judge anyone until I actually get to know them." When really that's a load of horse shit. They talk shit ALL THE TIME. It's frustrating, you know?
The "punks" around here are pretty chill. We don't really talk shit about anyone except for 1) Certain police officers we have encountered 2) Authority Figures (Teachers, Principle, probation officers, ect....) 3) Certain people in our group of friends, but we talk about them when they're right there. Sometimes we do talk about them when they're not there, but it's usually only a sentence because everyone's like," Okay this is not worth my time," and moves on. We usually find something interesting to talk about, other than gossip. Sometimes we bring up rumors(about ourselves), but it's only to laugh at them. Also everyone gets a first impression of someone, just some don't treat you differently on their first impression, or think that's actually the real you. See, I get first impressions of people, everyone does. I just don't act differently towards them or think badly of them without getting to know them first.
So, if you say that you don't get a first impression, you are a liar.
Then fuck em, your morals are yours only. dont let them fuckers warp yours too.
Yes, it's simplistic group mentality and I get tired of people expecting you to think(or like) things they think you should 'cause of their false preconceptions or to fit in with their clique. And it's very hypocritical in "punks".