So I'm About to Fight a Bitch..
At my boyfriends show tomorrow.. Ok here's the full story in quick re-cap mode..
Late September I was making flyers for my bf's show and I didn't know what to put on them so he sent me this picture of a girl with her top being pulled up and her nips were blurred and so was her face.. So I laughed and said I can't use this and he goes, yeah you can she said it was ok. So I was like.. she? And he goes yeah my friend.. let's call her Lynn.. Lynn said it was ok. So I started gently probing into who this was.. And then it just snowballed and I was crying and we were fighting and I told him that he made me hate him sometimes and shit..
Now.. he had this picture on his computer for a while, or so he claims.. the original, not blurred... But I got mad.. because why the fuck is he keeping computers of topless friends on his computer 5 months into our relationship? And why the fuck would he send them to his girlfriend? And I just went nuts. He freaked and that was like.. our biggest fight. I told him that I never wanted to see that girl or I'd kill her, he got mad and told me it wasn't her fault and I said I didn't care and that I hated her.
So.. fast forward a few months.. He's having another show and I came online and he's like.. omg so many people are coming so I asked who and he goes.. just a lot of people. So I laughed and told him to give me names because a lot of people to him could be like.. 2 people.. So he goes.. well Lynn is coming because she's in town.. so I said oh well just keep her away from me. And then we started fighting.
I pretty much told him that if she spoke to me I'd kick her ass. And he got all pissed.. And yeah..
So if she fucking touches him or even speaks to me I'll flip the fuck out. I mean, they had a thing for a little while, then she moved like.. 150 miles away.
Am I overreacting? I know 99% of guys will say yes lol, BECAUSE YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND! Like.. I felt my trust in him was completely lost that day, and I dunno.. I felt betrayed..
Late September I was making flyers for my bf's show and I didn't know what to put on them so he sent me this picture of a girl with her top being pulled up and her nips were blurred and so was her face.. So I laughed and said I can't use this and he goes, yeah you can she said it was ok. So I was like.. she? And he goes yeah my friend.. let's call her Lynn.. Lynn said it was ok. So I started gently probing into who this was.. And then it just snowballed and I was crying and we were fighting and I told him that he made me hate him sometimes and shit..
Now.. he had this picture on his computer for a while, or so he claims.. the original, not blurred... But I got mad.. because why the fuck is he keeping computers of topless friends on his computer 5 months into our relationship? And why the fuck would he send them to his girlfriend? And I just went nuts. He freaked and that was like.. our biggest fight. I told him that I never wanted to see that girl or I'd kill her, he got mad and told me it wasn't her fault and I said I didn't care and that I hated her.
So.. fast forward a few months.. He's having another show and I came online and he's like.. omg so many people are coming so I asked who and he goes.. just a lot of people. So I laughed and told him to give me names because a lot of people to him could be like.. 2 people.. So he goes.. well Lynn is coming because she's in town.. so I said oh well just keep her away from me. And then we started fighting.
I pretty much told him that if she spoke to me I'd kick her ass. And he got all pissed.. And yeah..
So if she fucking touches him or even speaks to me I'll flip the fuck out. I mean, they had a thing for a little while, then she moved like.. 150 miles away.
Am I overreacting? I know 99% of guys will say yes lol, BECAUSE YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND! Like.. I felt my trust in him was completely lost that day, and I dunno.. I felt betrayed..
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Permalink Reply by Erika Hysterica on
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Like.. yeah now that I think about it.. I am overreacting a little.. but I still fucking hate that girl. And idc. I'll fucking break her like a twig. AGH! DADDY DIDN'T PAY FOR MARTIAL ARTS FOR NO REASON DAMN IT!
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Permalink Reply by Segadoway on
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i would be absolutely fine with my girlfriend having those kind of pictures, as long as she loves ME and i know it then there is no issue
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Permalink Reply by spook on
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it's not my place to judge if someone is over reacting but I can tell you one thing from my own personal experience , she may still have feelings for your b/f as it may not of been her choice to move away , he may still have feelings for her for the same reason , if this is the case and she makes a move on your man beat ten colours of shit out of her and I promiss it will feel soooo good , then if your b/f is a willing participant to her moves then he needs a testicular re-adjustment too , oh and don't forget to have a good time :)
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You are out numbered Dru! And I knew you would say that.
Yeah and that was the argument I gave him Jess and he was like.. it's different and I said no. He's dumb. But this is the first serious relationship he's ever been in.
He swears he doesn't feel the same, and I believe him. He has never lied to me in the past. But I will beat the fuck out of her if she goes near him.
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Permalink Reply by Adam, Mohawked LMT on
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Well you can't help the way that you feel. I say never be ashamed of your emotions, but embrace them and understand why you feel that way.
But you are just a tad, realize that he is with you and if you two have been together for 5 months its sounds pretty solid. But I would say if she tries anything with your boy, choke her out. But you can even show you are the bigger person and be nice to her.
And yes I would be pretty pissed if I had a girl that had a picture of some dude's wang on her computer. Especially someone she actually knows.
And let me ask this, did he listen and try to understand why you were upset? Or was there just a lot of yelling?
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7 months =]
He tried to understand and then it turned into yelling. But we're both the most stubborn people in the world and fights get really bad because it's like we're both screaming at a brick wall. And then he gets so mad and says mean things like.. well go fuck a bum and stuff. And I'm like.. ok fuck you. Good tiiiiimes...
If she talks to me I'll just politely say fuck off.. and then she'll probably get the idea.
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7 months yay congrats,
Yeah sometimes in anger we say things we don't mean or just really want to hurt the other person.
IF you do fight her you have to tell us all about it.
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I'll tell you about the night no matter what.. because there's bound to be some sort of tension. Besides, she doesn't know anyone there except my bf, and he's going to be playing the whole time. I know like.. over half of the kids going, so w/e
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Permalink Reply by Cassy on
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yes you are way over reacting. be mad at him for keeping pictures, not at her, its not her fault that he kept it. i dont think that he should keep half naked pictures of girls in his computer, but thats not her fault.
so beating somone up for something that isnt even remotely their fault is way overreacting, but being pissed at your boyfriend isnt.
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Well she told him to use it on the flyer I was making and told him to send it.. But.. the show was canceled because we had a massive snowstorm.
Soooo yeah haha don't even have to do nuffin
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