What I Think About "Love" - Mohawks Rock2024-03-29T02:35:54Zhttps://www.mohawksrock.com/forum/topics/what-i-think-about-love?commentId=1501994%3AComment%3A207405&feed=yes&xn_auth=noYou speak truth, my friend...tag:www.mohawksrock.com,2009-06-19:1501994:Comment:2116122009-06-19T00:03:42.562ZRoosterhttps://www.mohawksrock.com/profile/Andy131
You speak truth, my friend...
You speak truth, my friend... This is why the idea of 'the…tag:www.mohawksrock.com,2009-06-18:1501994:Comment:2114212009-06-18T13:41:06.936ZRainehttps://www.mohawksrock.com/profile/KatieThomas
This is why the idea of 'the on you fuck, and the one you come home to' is such a good idea (theoretically, at least). You can have the person you love Platonically, and who you live with and love and spend most of your time with. And then you have the one that you want to screw like crazy, but at the same time who lack anything else in common with, and thus spend less time with. In many ways (though I myself like monogamy) this is why monogamy is a bitch. Realistically, you will rarely find…
This is why the idea of 'the on you fuck, and the one you come home to' is such a good idea (theoretically, at least). You can have the person you love Platonically, and who you live with and love and spend most of your time with. And then you have the one that you want to screw like crazy, but at the same time who lack anything else in common with, and thus spend less time with. In many ways (though I myself like monogamy) this is why monogamy is a bitch. Realistically, you will rarely find someone you can successfully do both with over long periods of time. Hence why people tend to find someone who they love in the platonic sense of the word, and then convince themselves that they really want to screw the person, because they love them that much.<br />
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This is why Hollywood came up with the idea of a love in which neither person sacrifices part of their personality or livelihood, and are platonically and sexually attracted. Romantic, sure, but realistically? Impossible. This, of course, leads to lying on both sides of the spectrum. Trust me, I've had plenty of guys lie to me because they think I'll fuck them, or because I get better grades then them and are thus a good person to bring home to mother. You are just subconciously as…tag:www.mohawksrock.com,2009-06-16:1501994:Comment:2100492009-06-16T07:44:01.611ZJanielle Undeadhttps://www.mohawksrock.com/profile/JanielleUndead
You are just subconciously asking yourself the age old question:<br />
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Is it better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all?<br />
Love is not a chemical reaction. Yes, you have those too.<br />
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If you really love someone, this means you love them more than yourself. It sounds simple, but it's really not.
You are just subconciously asking yourself the age old question:<br />
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Is it better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all?<br />
Love is not a chemical reaction. Yes, you have those too.<br />
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If you really love someone, this means you love them more than yourself. It sounds simple, but it's really not. Last sentence... I love it.…tag:www.mohawksrock.com,2009-06-12:1501994:Comment:2078832009-06-12T21:50:12.483ZKhaoshttps://www.mohawksrock.com/profile/Khaos
Last sentence... I love it.<br />
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It always helps to keep yourself grounded.
Last sentence... I love it.<br />
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It always helps to keep yourself grounded. True, love is an evolutionary…tag:www.mohawksrock.com,2009-06-12:1501994:Comment:2074052009-06-12T06:06:07.378Zk.phttps://www.mohawksrock.com/profile/kp22
True, love is an evolutionary mechanism that encourages healthy offspring to carry on your genes. Aesthetic qualities and behavioral qualities both come into effect, unconsciously most of the time, as you try to decide if your mate is of good and healthy stock. Welcome to evolution. If you find this view of love discourages or pisses you off, your problem is with the way of life, not hollywood. We're all just vehicles used to feed our genes, and our behaviors are tried and tested methods…
True, love is an evolutionary mechanism that encourages healthy offspring to carry on your genes. Aesthetic qualities and behavioral qualities both come into effect, unconsciously most of the time, as you try to decide if your mate is of good and healthy stock. Welcome to evolution. If you find this view of love discourages or pisses you off, your problem is with the way of life, not hollywood. We're all just vehicles used to feed our genes, and our behaviors are tried and tested methods developed through hundreds of thousands of years of trial and error.<br />
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And fuck you for fucking me after I read your angsty post. Grow a dick and she just might fuck it. Just because you've found out hollywood's version of love is a crock of shit doesn't mean that the good feelings we call love are a bad thing. Just enjoy the good while you have it and don't put expectations on it. Dunno about you guys, but I d…tag:www.mohawksrock.com,2009-06-11:1501994:Comment:2070782009-06-11T22:35:52.728ZKhaoshttps://www.mohawksrock.com/profile/Khaos
Dunno about you guys, but I don't think sex and love go hand in hand.<br />
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If I genuinely care about someone, I can sit and watch paint dry with them. I don't care, because I enjoy their company. Sex, if/when it presents itself is not important, just fun and just another form of bonding (seriously). (I honestly have no drive or desire to have children). I just need something constant in my life. Having that person there helps me in ways you guys may never know.<br />
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Yes, there are chemicals that are…
Dunno about you guys, but I don't think sex and love go hand in hand.<br />
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If I genuinely care about someone, I can sit and watch paint dry with them. I don't care, because I enjoy their company. Sex, if/when it presents itself is not important, just fun and just another form of bonding (seriously). (I honestly have no drive or desire to have children). I just need something constant in my life. Having that person there helps me in ways you guys may never know.<br />
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Yes, there are chemicals that are released, yes they make you feel good. But those chemicals benefit you in the long run. If you "love" someone and are in a serious and long term relationship with them, you're likely to live a longer, healthier, happier life.<br />
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Lust and love are not synonymous. Kids today got it wrong. Maybe I'm a bit old school/old fashioned, but thats okay with me. Blame it on the media, glorifying shitty relationships that are only beneficial for one person (money, for example).<br />
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I never wasted time like my peers do, dating someone for two weeks and moving on to the next available thing. Its pointless. I won't let myself become involved unless I can see it lasting. It's nothing but drama otherwise. <u>Most people are immature and ignorant to the fact that we are constantly growing and changing</u>. And in that ignorance, they are unwilling to accept that reality, and in turn, make decisions because they aren't aware of their own nature. But if you meet someone who is also aware of that, and willing to work and compromise or whatever it takes, you are more likely to find a best friend and life long partner out of it.<br />
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I do agree, that most people tend to rush into things blind, and not really aware of what is going on, and that can add to the damage done in the end. Most relationships are doomed to fail, it's a given. So many people in the world. However, there can be situations that work out. Relationships are multi-lane freeways and must be handled as such. Check your mirrors and your blind spots before merging, keep up with the flow of traffic, and be aware of dangerous curves (especially at high speeds, hehe). Take care of yourself and all the other pieces will fall in line.<br />
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And with this, I bid you all good night.<br />
haha you know, the sad thing is, t…tag:www.mohawksrock.com,2009-06-11:1501994:Comment:2065892009-06-11T09:36:48.509ZJoshhttps://www.mohawksrock.com/profile/JoshDouxRobidoux
you know, the sad thing is, that's how it is today. Love as it used to be doesn't exist anymore. It's been cheapened and confused for something else rendering it fake.<br />
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"Love" has been reduced to a series of chemical reactions for one simple thing, that disgusting evolutionary drive to reproduce. I hate children lol so there goes that idea.<br />
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Love at first sight is nothing but a farce to me. I hate hearing my friends bitch about their relationship problems, i have a hard time trying to give a…
you know, the sad thing is, that's how it is today. Love as it used to be doesn't exist anymore. It's been cheapened and confused for something else rendering it fake.<br />
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"Love" has been reduced to a series of chemical reactions for one simple thing, that disgusting evolutionary drive to reproduce. I hate children lol so there goes that idea.<br />
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Love at first sight is nothing but a farce to me. I hate hearing my friends bitch about their relationship problems, i have a hard time trying to give a shit. I'm used to being alone, i almost prefer it.<br />
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Its sad that other people are now reinforcing my pessimism lol "I'm scared of relationships…tag:www.mohawksrock.com,2009-06-11:1501994:Comment:2065532009-06-11T07:13:05.960ZSegadowayhttps://www.mohawksrock.com/profile/Segadoway
"I'm scared of relationships because of the fear of them turning sour, if you can dig that. It tends to make relationships seem pointless. Just something to do in-between sex sessions.<br />
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Realistically, most relationships don't work out. Probably whomever you are with now, you aren't going to be with them forever, regardless of what you think. You can say 'I'll love you forever' and all that bullshit, but what does it really mean?<br />
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Nothing. It's just something that people say. It is completely…
"I'm scared of relationships because of the fear of them turning sour, if you can dig that. It tends to make relationships seem pointless. Just something to do in-between sex sessions.<br />
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Realistically, most relationships don't work out. Probably whomever you are with now, you aren't going to be with them forever, regardless of what you think. You can say 'I'll love you forever' and all that bullshit, but what does it really mean?<br />
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Nothing. It's just something that people say. It is completely meaningless. To think that you are ever in a position to say, 'Hey dude, I'll love you forever and we'll get married and die laying in the same bed together' is fucking ridiculous. People change their minds. People lie. People fuck up. People are stupid. People cheat. People fall out of love."<br />
Mainly that. Which part(s) do you agree wi…tag:www.mohawksrock.com,2009-06-11:1501994:Comment:2065382009-06-11T06:03:31.588ZJuggalo MaggotFacehttps://www.mohawksrock.com/profile/JuggaloMaggotFace
Which part(s) do you agree with??
Which part(s) do you agree with?? Hmm i agree with some of that…tag:www.mohawksrock.com,2009-06-10:1501994:Comment:2059232009-06-10T09:53:49.509ZSegadowayhttps://www.mohawksrock.com/profile/Segadoway
Hmm i agree with some of that...........
Hmm i agree with some of that...........