I'm a musician, have a lot of solo music done mostly via sequencing but I am also the lead vocalist of The Mercury Rising. http://themercuryrising.com (the real webpage instead of a redirect to the myspace page is coming coon).
I've wanted this style for years but just never had the balls to do it. I've had the septum ring since '94.
To be blunt: I like guys, so as I'll be friends with anyone who is willing to put up with my weirdness, the only types I'm intimate with are those that are male, heavyset/obese, masculine, and don't carry their weight in shame.